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A relative has made a hurtful comment during a family gathering, causing personal distress.
💡 When addressing hurtful comments, focus on setting boundaries rather than escalating the argument. Expressing how the comment affected you directly is more effective than attacking the other person's character.
Your Responses
I am honestly quite hurt by what you just said, and I would prefer if we didn't speak to me like that.
Ouch, that was a tough one to hear. I value our relationship, but that comment really didn't sit well with me.
I would like to address the comment you made earlier. I found it to be inappropriate and would appreciate it if we kept our conversation respectful moving forward.
I am not comfortable with the way that was phrased. Let’s change the subject, or I am going to need to take some space.
That was hurtful to hear, and I’d appreciate it if you didn't say that to me.
I need to speak up because I am feeling very uncomfortable right now. When you made that comment about me, it really hurt, and it makes it difficult for me to enjoy this meal. I would like to move past it, but I need you to understand why I am upset.
⚠️ What NOT to say
- ✗You are such an idiot for saying that.
- ✗Why are you always such a jerk to me?
- ✗I'm leaving because you're the worst person in this family.