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A friend has shared confidential information about a mutual friend that puts you in an uncomfortable position.
💡 Prioritize setting healthy boundaries while maintaining your own integrity. It is helpful to be clear that you prefer not to be a repository for secrets that might compromise your other friendships.
Your Responses
I appreciate you trusting me, but honestly, I feel a bit uncomfortable knowing this about our friend. I would prefer if we didn't discuss this further.
Oh, that sounds like a tough spot for you to be in, but I think I’d rather stay out of it. Let’s talk about something else so I don't feel like I'm keeping secrets from them.
Thank you for sharing, but I believe this information is best kept between you and the person involved. I would prefer not to be privy to private matters regarding our mutual friends.
I value our friendship, but I don't feel comfortable hearing secrets about other people we know. Let’s keep our conversations focused on things that don't involve third parties.
I’d rather not know about this, if you don't mind. Can we change the subject?
To be completely honest, hearing this puts me in a really awkward position because I value my relationship with both of you. I don't think it's fair to our friend for me to hold this information, so I would really prefer if you didn't share those kinds of things with me in the future.
⚠️ What NOT to say
- ✗Wow, that's juicy—tell me everything else you know about it.
- ✗I can't believe they did that, let's call them up and confront them right now.
- ✗Don't worry, I won't tell anyone, but let me tell you what I think about them.